Finding the Boyfriend Within A Practical Guide for Tapping into your own Scource of Love, Happiness, and Respect

In the tradition of the perennial bestsellerI'm OK, You're OK,noted author Brad Gooch offers single and coupled gay men a provocative, sophisticated, and inspirational guide that addresses the big issues of love, romance, and being alone. Part memoir, part self-help,Finding the Boyfriend Withinis a remarkably practical and helpful guide in the quest for self-discovery for the thousands of gay men who despair of ever being in a committed relationship.Filled with anecdotes, romantic advice, problem-solving suggestions, and humor -- as well as wisdom from both the East and West --Finding the Boyfriend Withinoffers simple self-awareness exercises to help discover the respect, happiness, and love that come first, and most enduringly, from within.

Brad Gooch is the author of Godtalk: Travels in Spiritual America, and the acclaimed biography of Frank O'Hara, City Poet, as well as the novels The Golden Age of Promiscuity and Scary Kisses. His poems, stories, and articles have appeared in The Nation, The Paris Review, Vanity Fair, Out, as well as many others. He lives in New York City.