Male Sexuality Why Women Don't Understand It-And Men Don't Either

At first glance the sexual male seems easy to understand, but beneath the surface lie complexities that disrupt lives and relationships. Why can men be so distant in bed? Why do many men love porn so much? And can he love porn and still love his wife? Respected psychologist Michael Bader takes an honest look at the nuances of male sexuality, addressing issues such as sexual boredom, internet sex, and sexual fantasies that can leave women bewildered and men ashamed. Illustrated with engaging examples from his practice, Male Sexuality gives readers, both women and men, deeper understanding of male behavior from the flamboyant to the mundane. Through increased awareness of the psychology behind the sex, Bader aims to enhance individual self-esteem and improve communication in relationships.

Michael Bader, DMH, is a clinical psychologist and psychoanalyst who has been in practice for over twenty-five years. He is a widely respected teacher, public speaker, and therapist and lives in San Francisco. He has written extensively about psychology, politics, and culture and is the author of the highly acclaimed book Arousal: The Secret Logic of Sexual Fantasies.