Treating Sexual Shame A New Map for

Masturbation, homosexuality, the unconventional paraphilias here dubbed cross-wirings, and the dynamics of flirtations, jealousy, and extramarital affairs, all get a new look through Dr. Hastings' lens of shame as concomitant cause and effect of sexual behaviors.

Preface

ix

1 Beyond Dysfunction, Abuse, and Addiction

1

(14)

PART I: SEXUAL SHAME

15

(28)

2 Shame--The Root of Problems with Sex

15

(10)

3 Making Sexual Shame Congruent with Self

25

(18)

PART II: DYSFUNCTION, ABUSE, AND ADDICTION

43

(48)

4 First Came Sex Therapy

43

(12)

5 Treatment of Sexual Abuse

55

(14)

6 The Complexity of Sexual Addiction

69

(22)

PART III: A NEW LOOK

91

(114)

7 Body Parts and Sexual Functioning

91

(18)

8 Paraphilias and Other "Cross-Wired" Preferences

109

(18)

9 Understanding Flirting and Jealousy

127

(14)

10 Men Are Not the Bad Gender

141

(14)

11 Accepting Homosexuality

155

(22)

12 Affairs

177

(18)

13 Paths to Sexual Healing

195

(10)

PART IV: ADDRESSING SEXUALITY IN THERAPY

205

(98)

14 Why Clients Don't Talk with Therapists about Sex

205

(12)

15 Asking Questions about Sexuality

217

(12)

16 Indirect Presentation of a Sexual Problem

229

(20)

17 When the Client Takes the "Sex Drug" in the Therapist's Office

249

(14)

18 Countertransference Is a Source of Information

263

(30)

19 How to Refer for Consultation

293

(10)

PART V: THERAPIST HEALING

303

(10)

20 Suggestions to Assist Therapists with Shame Removal

303

(10)

Afterword

313

(2)

References

315

(6)

Index

321

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Treating Sexual Shame A New Map for Overcoming Dysfunction, Abuse, and Addiction

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