Gay and Single...Forever? 10 Things Every Gay Guy Looking for Love (and Not Finding It) Needs to Know

Journalist Steven Bereznai presentable, accomplished, well educated, successful, and in his early 30s has never had a boyfriend. "Is Singlesville my final destination?" Bereznai wonders. Or does a partner await? And what does he really want? To pair up, or to maintain the independence of a single life? Now in Gay and Single . . . Forever?, Bereznai investigates the basic question of whether there can be acceptance for him and other single gay menassingle menwhere the push to partner with a man has replaced the pressure to marry a woman. Bringing together a perfect mix of personal narrative, historical research, interviews with dozens of gay men including Andrew Holleran, Michael Bronski, and Wayson Choy and intensely penetrating social and psychological insight, Gay and Single . . . Forever? will resonate deeply among gay men many of whom, even today, spend most of their lives not in a relationship.

Steve Bereznai (Bur-ez-nay) is a writer/producer for CBC TV. He lives in Toronto, Canada.