Get Out of Your Mind & Into Your Life

This book develops acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT), a revolutionary and exciting new direction in psychotherapy, into step-by-step exercises readers can use to get relief from emotional pain. Written by ACT's founding theorist, the book offers a self-help program proven to be effective for coping with a range of problems, from anxiety to depression, eating disorders to poor self-esteem.

Steven C. Hayes, Ph.D., is University of Nevada Foundation Professor of Psychology at the University of Nevada, Reno

Acknowledgments

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Introduction

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Act: What It Is and How It Can Help You

Suffering: Psychological Quicksand

The Ubiquity of Human Suffering

Mindfulness, Acceptance, and Values

Commitment and Values-Based Living

Human Suffering

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Human Suffering Is Universal

Exercise: Your Suffering Inventory

The Problem with Pain

Exercise: The Pain is Gone, Now What?

The Problem with Pain: Revisited

Living a Valued Life: An Alternative

Why Language Leads to Suffering

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John T. Blackledge

The Nature of Human Language

Exercise: Relate Anything to Anything Else

Exercise: A Screw, a Toothbrush, and a Lighter

Why Language Creates Suffering

Exercise: A Yellow Jeep

Exercise: Don't Think About Your Thought

What You've Been Doing

Exercise: The Coping Strategies Worksheet

The Problem with Getting Rid of Things---Squared

Experiential Avoidance

The Mind-Train

The Pull of Avoidance

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Julieann Pankey

Kathleen M. Palm

Why We Do What Can't Work

Accepting the Possibility That Experiential Avoidance Can't Work

So, What Are You Supposed to Do?

Exercise: The Blame Game

Exercise: Judging Your Own Experience: Examining What Works

Moving On

Exercise: What Are You Feeling and Thinking Now?

Letting Go

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(10)

John T. Blackledge

Michael Ritter

If You're Not Willing to Have It, You Will

Acceptance and Willingness

Exercise: Why Willingness?

Willingness and Distress

Exercise: Being Willingly Out of Breath

The ``Willingness to Change'' Question

The Trouble with Thoughts

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(16)

Jason Lillis

Thought Production

Exercise: What Are You Thinking Right Now?

Why Thinking Has Such an Impact

Exercise: Your Daily Pain Diary

Looking at Your Thoughts Rather Than from Your Thoughts

The Mind-Train

Exercise: Watching the Mind-Train

Having a Thought Versus Buying a Thought

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John T. Blackledge

Jason Lillis

Cognitive Defusion: Separating Your Thoughts from Their Referents

Exercise: Say the Word ``Milk'' as Fast as You Can

Exercise: Labeling Your Thoughts

Exercise: Floating Leaves on a Moving Stream

Exercise: Describing Thoughts and Feelings

Exercise: Exploring the Difference Between Descriptions and Evaluations

Creating Your Own Cognitive Defusion Techniques

If I'm Not My Thoughts, Then Who Am I?

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Considering Your Self-Conceptualizations

The Three Senses of Self

Exercise: Retelling Your Own Story

Being the Observing Self

Exercise: Experientially, I'm Not That

Getting Started

Exercise: Tracking Your Thoughts in Time

Taking the Next Step

Mindfulness

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Daily Practice

The Practice

Exercise: Be Where You Are

Exercise: Silent Walking

Exercise: Cubbyholing

Exercise: Eating Raising

Exercise: Drinking Tea

Exercise: Eating Mindfully

Exercise: Listening to Classical Music

Exercise: Be Mindful of Your Feet While You Read This

Exercise: Just Sitting

Mindfulness in Context

What Willingness Is and Is Not

121

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Michael Ritter

John T. Blackledge

What Needs to Be Accepted?

Exercise: What Needs to Be Accepted

The Goal of Willingness

Willingness: Learning How to Jump

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Michael Ritter

The Willingness Scale

Taking a Jump

Exercise: Willingness Scale Worksheet

Using Your Skills and Learning Some New Ones

Exercise: Physicalizing

Exercise: Giving Your Target a Form

Exercise: The Tin-Can Monster

Exercise: Acceptance in Real-Time

What Are Values?

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Values as Chosen Life Directions

What Values Are and Are Not

Choosing Your Values

165

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The Masters You Serve

Exercise: Attending Your Own Funeral

Taking It a Step Further: Ten Valued Domains

Ranking and Testing Your Values

Committed Action

Committing to Doing It

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Jason Lillis

Michael Twohig

Taking Bold Steps

Exercise: Goals Worksheet

Exercise: Making Goals Happen Through Action

Exercise: Expected Barriers

Many Maps for Different Journeys

Building Patterns of Effective Action

Whose Life Is It Anyway?

Conclusion: The Choice to Live a Vital Life

195

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David Chantry

Appendix: The Values and Data Underlying ACT

199

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References

203

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