Random Families Genetic Strangers, Sperm Donor Siblings, and the Creation of New Kin

Random Families is about the unprecedented families that have grown up at the intersection of new reproductive technologies, social media, and the human desire for belonging. Children of the same donor and their families, with the help of the internet, can now locate each other and make contact. Based on over 350 interviews with children (ages 10-28), their parents and related donors from all over the U.S., Random Families chronicles the chain of choices that couples and single mothers make from what donor to use to how to participate (or not) in donor sibling networks. Children reveal their understanding of a donor, the donor's spot on the family tree and the meaning of their donor siblings. Through rich first-person accounts of network membership, the book illustrates how these extraordinary relationships-woven from bits of online information and shared genetic ties-are transformed into new possibilities for kinship. Random Families offers down-to-earth stories from real families to highlight just how truly distinctive these contemporary new forms of family are.

Rosanna Hertz is the 1919 50th Reunion Professor of Sociology and Women's and Gender Studies at Wellesley College. She authored Single by Chance, Mothers by Choice, a path-breaking study of women who choose parenthood without marriage. Her first major book was More Equal than Others: Women and Men in Dual-Career Marriages.

Margaret K. Nelson is the A. Barton Hepburn Professor of Sociology Emerita at Middlebury College. Her books include Working Hard and Making Do: Surviving in Small Town America (with Joan Smith), and Parenting Out of Control: Anxious Parents in Uncertain Times.

Introduction: Unprecedented Relationships

Part I: Making Sense of the Donor and Donor Siblings
Chapter 1. Choosing Donors
Chapter 2. Inventing the Donor / Inventing the Self
Chapter 3. Parents Make Contact with Genetic Strangers
Chapter 4. The Surprise of donor siblings

Part II: Networks of Donor Siblings
Chapter 5. Michael's Clan: The Arrival of the Father
Chapter 6. 7008 Builders: We are Family
Chapter 7. The Tourists: Just Related Strangers
Chapter 8. Connected Soul Mates: Emotional Ties
Chapter 9. The Social Capitalists: Joining The Preschoolers Group
Chapter 10. Donor Sibling Networks: Continuity and Change
Conclusion: Choice in Donor Sibling Networks

Appendix A: Respondents
Appendix B: Interviews, Virtual Ethnography And Language In The Book
Endnotes
Bibliography