Reconnecting A Self-Coaching Solution to

What kind of animal are you? Are you a tiger or a turtle? How about a peacock? Maybe a little bit of everything? In Reconnecting, you'll find out how your animal personality and your partner's lie at the center of the conflicts that plague your relationship. These animals represent habits of behavior we use to defend ourselves and hide our insecurities in relationships. Understanding them and breaking the habits that are characteristic of your personality type are key to transforming your relationship from a constant series of struggles into a loving partnership.

Joseph J. Luciani, PH.D., is the author of the bestselling Self-Coaching series and a clinical psychologist who has been in private practice for more than thirty years. He is a frequent lecturer and guest on national TV and radio, and the author of Self-Coaching and The Power of Self-Coaching.

Acknowledgments	p. ix
The Self-Coaching Phase
Working without Your Partner
Can I Really Save My Relationship? Becoming a Catalyst	p. 3
Why Your Relationship Isn't the Problem	p. 21
Insecurity and Control: Relationship Baggage	p. 35
Self-Coaching: Eliminating Your Contribution to the Problem	p. 51
Are You a Tiger, Turtle, Elephant, Raccoon, or Peacock? Learning Your Reflexive Personality Style	p. 67
Assessing Your Reflexive Personality Patterns	p. 85
Sketching Your Self-Portrait	p. 93
Self-Talk, Step 1: Separate Facts from Fictions	p. 103
Self-Talk, Step 2: Stop Listening to What Hurts You	p. 117
Self-Talk, Step 3: Let Go of What Hurts You	p. 129
Sketching Your Relationship Portrait: Seeing the Whole Problem	p. 145
Catalytic Self-Coaching
Working with Your Partner
Creating a Relationship Vacuum	p. 161
Working with Self + Self = Us Portraits	p. 173
Coaching Each Other: Risking Trust	p. 185
Putting It All Together: Follow-Through	p. 197
Love, Infatuation, and Infidelity	p. 213
True Love, Great Sex: A Self-Coaching Understanding	p. 225
The Ten Essential Principles of Successful Relating	p. 241
Index	p. 253
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Reconnecting A Self-Coaching Solution to Revive Your Love Life

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