Selfish, Shallow, and Self-Absorbed Sixteen Writers on the Decision Not to Have Kids

Sixteen literary luminaries on the controversial subject of being childless by choice, in this critically acclaimed, bestselling anthology

One of the most provocative and talked-about books of the year, Selfish, Shallow, and Self-Absorbed is the stunning collection exploring one of society’s most vexing taboos.

One of the main topics of cultural conversation during the last decade was the supposed “fertility crisis,” and whether modern women could figure out a way to have it all—a successful career and the required 2.3 children—before their biological clocks stopped ticking. Now, however, the conversation has turned to whether it’s necessary to have it all (see Anne-Marie Slaughter) or, perhaps more controversial, whether children are really a requirement for a fulfilling life.

In this exciting and controversial collection of essays, curated by writer Meghan Daum, thirteen acclaimed female writers explain why they have chosen to eschew motherhood. Contributors include Lionel Shriver, Sigrid Nunez, Kate Christensen, Elliott Holt, Geoff Dyer, and Tim Kreider, among others, who will give a unique perspective on the overwhelming cultural pressure of parenthood.

This collection makes a smart and passionate case for why parenthood is not the only path to a happy, productive life, and takes our parent-centric, kid-fixated, baby-bump-patrolling culture to task in the process. In this book, that shadowy faction known as the childless-by-choice comes out into the light.

CONTENTS

Introduction
by Meghan Daum — 1

Babes in the Woods
by Courtney Hodell — 11

Maternal Instincts
by Laura Kipnis — 31

A Thousand Other Things
by Kate Christensen — 47

The New Rhoda
by Paul Lisicky — 63

Be Here Now Means Be Gone Later
by Lionel Shriver — 77

The Most Important Thing
by Sigrid Nunez — 97

Mommy Fearest
by Anna Holmes — 119

Amateurs
by Michelle Huneven — 131

Save Yourself
by Danielle Henderson — 14

The Trouble with Having It All
by Pam Houston — 163

Beyond Beyond Motherhood
by Jeanne Safer — 185

Over and Out
by Geoff Dyer — 197

You’d Be Such a Good Mother, If Only You Weren’t You
by M. G. — 209

Lord The Hardest Art
by Rosemary Mahoney — 227

Just an Aunt
by Elliott Holt — 245

The End of the Line
by Tim Kreider — 261

Acknowledgments — 275

Contributors — 277

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