The Therapist's Journey From Meeting Your First Client to Finding Your Life's Work

Psychotherapists just starting out in the field often have more questions than answers: "Am I really cut out for this job?" "Where do I want my career to be heading?" "How do I deal with my reactions to clients, or theirs to me?" In this empathic book, seasoned therapist and supervisor Robert Taibbi speaks directly to new clinicians about the world of work and the workplace, the arc of careers, and the keys to staying creative and energized. The book can be read sequentially or readers can dip into any of the 59 concise chapters on such topics as honing clinical skills, first aid when sessions go off the rails, supervision problems, transitioning into private practice, and how to be wise. Insightful reflection questions are woven throughout.

See also other essential resources for new clinicians--Becoming a Therapist, Second Edition, by Suzanne Bender and Edward Messner, which covers what to say and why, starting from the very first session, and The Mental Health Clinician's Workbook, by James Morrison, which takes a learn-by-doing approach to building diagnostic skills.

Robert Taibbi, LCSW, is an experienced clinician, supervisor, and clinical director who has been practicing almost 50 years. He is the author of numerous books, including The Therapist's Journey, Doing Family Therapy, Fourth Edition, and Doing Couple Therapy, Second Edition, as well as over 300 magazine and journal articles, and writes a column titled “Fixing Families” for Psychology Today online. Mr. Taibbi provides training both nationally and internationally in couple therapy, family therapy, brief therapy, and clinical supervision. He has a private practice in Charlottesville, Virginia.
 

I. Starting Out
1. Why Do You Want to Be a Therapist? A Question & Answer in Two Parts
2. Reflections: My Becoming a Therapist
3. Why Doing Therapy is Hard Work
4. Transitions: From the Academic to the Agency World
5. Piling On: Common Clinical Challenges
6. Reflections: My First Year
II. Your Work
7. Six Ways to Build Rapport
8. Be the Adult
9. What Can’t You Do?
10. Coping with Anxiety: Approach, Avoid, or Bind?
11. The Relationship Triangle
12. Making the Most of Parallel Process
13. Shifting Focus: How Therapy is Different from Normal Conversation
14. Therapy’s Many Voices
15. Therapy as a Pragmatic Sport
16. Creative Formats: Thinking Outside the Box
17. Therapy as Performance
18. Handling Self-Disclosure
19. Sounds of Silence
20. Everything to Know About Resistance
21. Getting on Track and Staying There
22. Changing the Emotional Climate
23. The Challenge of Couple Therapy
24. Three Big Obstacles in Relationships
25. Children, Families, and Therapy
26. Working with Play
27. Time to Check In
28. First Aid for Those Awful Sessions
29. When a Client Is in Crisis
30. Working with Clients Who are Different From You
31. Handling Sexual Attraction: It’s Gonna Happen
32. Those You Can’t Help
III. Your Workplace
33. So, You Don’t Like Your Supervisor?
34. What Your Supervisor’s World Is Like
35. Time to Leave Your Therapist?
36. Clients Are not Vicarious Outlets
37. When You Don’t Like Your Clients
38. Working in Challenging Environments
39. When You're Having a Hard Time
40. So, What Do You Do All Day?
41. Organization One: Taking Control of Your Day
42. Organization Two: Setting Priorities
IV. Your Career
43. Your Work: A Job, a Career, a Calling
44. One Year Out: Moving from Content to Process
45. Moving On: Coming into Your Power
46. A Voice of Your Own
47. How to Use Trainings
48. When You Outgrow Your Job
49. Transitions: Clinician to Supervisor
50. Going Private
51. Reflections: Looking Back at a Career
V. You
52. Are You a Builder or a Discoverer?
53. Creating a Balanced Life
54. Getting Closure: Writing to Heal Old Wounds
55. Reflections: My Big Day in Court
56. Run Toward What You Fear
57. Your Life as a Movie
58. What’s Your Relationship with Your Life?
59. How to Be Wise
References
Index