Torn Asunder Workbook Recovering From an Extramarital Affair

This workbook is an excellent tool for couples to work through and apply the material presented in Torn Asunder. It is organized into daily twenty-minute exercises initiated by each spouse on alternating days. Because this tragic situation is not easily resolved, this workbook is a must to get couples on the road to healing and oneness.

DAVE CARDER currently serves as Pastor responsible for Counseling and Marriage Ministries at the First Evangelical Free Church of Fullerton. He holds graduate degrees in Biblical Literature and in Marital and Family Therapy as well as the Michigan Limited License in Psychology and the Marriage and Family Therapy license in California. Dave has published five books, one of which won The Gold Medallion Award in Personal Evangelism in 1993. Dave and his wife, Ronnie, have four adult children and five grandchildren. In their spare time they enjoy jogging.

Introduction: A Time for Growth 1. Key Concepts for Recovery 2. Looking at Your Marital History 3. Marital Style 4. Preparing For and Processing Forgiveness 5. Rebuilding Trust 6. Reconnecting with Each Other 7. Family-of-Origin Practices That Predisposed Our Marriage to Infidelity 8. Patterns That Predisposed Our Marriage to Infidelity 9. Circumstances That Triggered the Affair 10. Things I Have Learned and Changes I Have Made 11. Into the Future Appendix A: Workbook Homework Schedule Appendix B: Select Marriage and Recovery Resources